i had a life when i was with my fourth partner. i used to believe that love goes in 3's, that the fourth was going to be the real and last one, the one who was gonna take care of me, love me, and fight for me for eternity as much as i do, yet i was wrong. very wrong.
i realized that love is not about the numbers, it's about person and the kind of relationship you get involve with. it's about choosing the person you'd want to fall in love with. yes, love and loving is a matter of choice. of course, this is just my say.
back to my previous relationship, which concluded not so long ago, i learned a lot from it. and the important lesson was to be wiser and more clever the next time id want to take risk and take chances.
to the person, i was just too good of a boyfriend for you. the almost-9-month relationship was indeed a great experience. thank you for the lessons. i'm done sour-graping and grieving over what happened. im so over you now. and all i want is for you to be happy and i wish you all the best in life. take care always
to the lovers in the world, take good care of each other's heart. dont let small things tear you apart. cherish every moment together.
to all the single ladies, single gents, and the in-betweeners, take time being single. as the cliche goes, "single is sexy."
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there are a lot of taking chances in love..a wise decision of getting over and moving on is just a step closer to finding the one...as the clincher goes.."love 'til it hurts and love 'til it hurts no more...the black anonymous
ReplyDeletesays: loving again would take a lot of steps, as in the process of healing. loving till it does not hurt anymore would mean to me as loving someone because i am in an agony of a bleeding heart, but what happens after the pain is gone? when the agony is over? i might just lose track and fall out of love
ReplyDeletei might be on the opposite side of what you are trying to convey because the tendency is i might just become an another rebounder.i could not take the part of being one
if you ever get the feeling of being too scared or too tired to fall in love..you might wanna take time to breathe and think it over..is it really love?for in the art of emotions..love is too deep, too wide, yes, too enormous to run out..
ReplyDeleteyes i really wanted to take my time to think about everything over and over again. i believe that pain does not heal, we just get used to it. i'd love to take my time, a time to feel the pain and to learn to get used to the pain.
ReplyDeleteat the end of it all, loving till it hurts no more is a big contradiction against principles and beliefs in life
*hemorrhage* ^^,
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